New activity - gem 'painting'

Because I can't get rid of the fear of judgement if I post my little activities on closed networks, I am trying to post here. Somehow it feels like in a closed profile with just friends I actually know, that I am being a showoff or posting something directed towards someone specific. In a way i have to think about every single person and i feel guilty if someone comes to mind later that i didn't think of.People have lost family members, trying to have kids or have kids of a specific gender, working, not working, parents, in-laws, have different kinds of relations with their partners, have different skill sets and hobbies and stress levels and life stages. It feels overwhelming to think about all this before posting a single sentence or photo, I know people used to live before social media and it's easier said than done that we should just focus on real life etc but the fact of the matter is that life is like that nowadays and people do share a lot and in turn receive a lot and become better at handling it with time. There is a long way to go and a lot to learn. I need to learn to not care that much about sharing small things and also people need to be better at handling it and not take everything as a threat, to give credit when copying something, to not make other people feel like they are under surveillance or answerable for little things, or just because they post some perfect photo or memory doesn't mean they now have to live up to blogger standard. 

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